Friday, February 3, 2012

What should I do for prom with my girlfriend?

Ok well, tonight is prom for my school. Well, I have been dating my date officially now for 8 days, and unofficially for about 3 weeks now. She means a lot to me as I do to her, and we are perfect for each other but I don't want to screw things up with her because of all the girls I've dated she is the one I have connected with the most. I already screwed up once because the flower shop ran out of white roses which she wanted for her corsage and I ended up with pink. I want advice on what I should do with her tonight. We have made out for hours and have proclaimed our love for each other. We are going with her best friend, my friend and my date and we are spending the night at my friends house. She is a Senior and im only a sophmore, I don't know what to do next, btw we are both virgins. Also tonight really means a lot to her and I want to make it special, what really sucks is her ex and the other 2 guys that like her and she rejected are going to be there, and I dont know how to.....

What should I do for prom with my girlfriend?
Well first of all dancing is very important to many girls and from the sound of where you live, maybe Cali, it is very important to not look foolish. If her last b/f was an insanely great dancer and your skills are not in dancing, be humurous and cool so that it doesn't look like you are trying to be something you are not. Girls hate when a guy really tries, don't get me wrong it can be cute especially since you are a soph and she's a senior. But it also needs to be considered of how you view yourself- are you the badass cool guy or the sweet guy- either way you need to act differently if you want to be yourself. Before prom, if you have not asked her formally already, I suggest that you create notes and put them inside balloons in each one of her classes. She pops the balloons and at the end of the day you can be in her last period with a rose asking her to prom. Since you have probably already asked her, during the date I wouldn't stare too much at her or kiss her because it could be too much, it is her last prom and she wants it to go perfectly. I really recommend that you keep it cool because when you act cool (almost nonchalant but not really), but be sweet. About the whole sex after prom I recommend if it happens and the mood is right and you are both comfy than go for it (you are only young once), but PLEASE use protection. Also if you mess up dancing don't leave her alone so some other guy- the other two boys who like her- can come and dance with her but lead her away to your table and maybe talk and kiss but don't over do it- as soon as you gain your composure go out there and shake what ya mama gave ya! Good luck, last but not least, be yourself, even though your last g/f broke up with you b/c of a corsage- childish, this g/f is probably way better and fell in love with you not for your awesome dance moves but your personality, again I hope your night goes as perfectly as I hope my prom will go!!
Reply:The thing i learn early one in relationships is you have to be there for her ond that means you need to man up if her ex steps up and gives you **** give it back dont stand there like a *** also take her out for a nice dinner what ever money will allow but make it nice just compliment her thou out the night anyways know one can tell you how to act on what to do you need to see what she wants and act on it. p.s have fun I was in your same shoes you where in about 7 years ago ;-)

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